If this you?

Have you been exhausting yourself sifting through tons of profiles on dating apps, tussling exchanging messages with unsuitable people, and having awkward first dates you never want to repeat?

Does this sound familiar?

 

You’ve probably had some painful relationship experiences with people who were not right for you, maybe some hurtful rejections, possibly long periods of isolation because you have not found the right person and are avoiding the pain of choosing the wrong ones.

You may even believe there are no good partner-material people out there.

If you can relate to any of that, then you are in absolutely the right place.

I am here to guide you through the process to re-write your love story with a happy ending.

In each lettered section of DESIRE, there is video for guidance and a short collection of journaling prompts and suggestions to signpost you along the way and ensure you get the maximum effect of the process.

Get yourself a lovely pen and journal or create documents on your chosen device which represent love and happiness for you. Look for lovely pictures, a gorgeous ink shade, beautiful paper. Online you might border your pages, choose a colour and font that you enjoy which inspire romance. Let’s get writing your new love story with that beautiful happy ending!

 

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D is for Defining

Video No 1 is D for Defining what and who you want in a
relationship. Define the object of your desire. This is really important to be so clear on your requirements in love and relationship. The first two steps will give you clarity and the
standard against which you will be measuring any prospective partner. If we’re not definite and clear, we are much more likely to just take who comes to us rather than wait and discern someone who is truly right for us.

S for Self-development and Self-discovery | Part 1

Self-development – in these 2 videos for the “S” step you will learn how to become
the person you need to be to attract great love. It’s about learning to be more of who
you really are rather than trying to be something you’re not because you think that’s not acceptable or attractive. We do this by discovering your unhelpful patterns in love and rising above them. Most of the unhelpful patterns in love are unconscious, so this step will help you bring things into your mind that you can work on and release. From there you will open to embrace, heartfelt soul-level love.

E for Exact, Elucidation and Expansion

Exact – this video will help you be exact in the creation of your Intention and visualisation meditation to strengthen your focus and become magnetic to love.

Setting an intention is like plotting your destination on a map. You’ll become really clear what you’re aiming for and you’ll assess any decisions you make as moving you closer or diverting you from your path. You’ll get clear and deepen into this vision to expand into the you who walks that wonderful loved and loving path.

 

S for Self-development and Self-discovery |. Part 2

Self-discovery – in these 2 videos for the “S” step you will learn how to become the person you need to be to attract great love. It’s about learning to be more of who you really are rather than trying to be something you’re not because you think that’s not acceptable or attractive. We do this by discovering your unhelpful patterns in love and rising above them. Most of the unhelpful patterns in love are unconscious, so this step will help you bring things into your mind that you can work on and release. From there you will open to embrace, heartfelt soul-level love.

D is for Defining

Video No 1 is D for Defining what and who you want in a
relationship. Define the object of your desire. This is really important to be so clear on your requirements in love and relationship. The first two steps will give you clarity and the
standard against which you will be measuring any prospective partner. If we’re not definite and clear, we are much more likely to just take who comes to us rather than wait and discern someone who is truly right for us.

E for Exact, Elucidation and Expansion

Exact – this video will help you be exact in the creation of your Intention and visualisation meditation to strengthen your focus and become magnetic to love.

Setting an intention is like plotting your destination on a map. You’ll become really clear what you’re aiming for and you’ll assess any decisions you make as moving you closer or diverting you from your path. You’ll get clear and deepen into this vision to expand into the you who walks that wonderful loved and loving path.

 

S for Self-development and Self-discovery | Part 1

Self-development – in these 2 videos for the “S” step you will learn how to become
the person you need to be to attract great love. It’s about learning to be more of who
you really are rather than trying to be something you’re not because you think that’s not acceptable or attractive. We do this by discovering your unhelpful patterns in love and rising above them. Most of the unhelpful patterns in love are unconscious, so this step will help you bring things into your mind that you can work on and release. From there you will open to embrace, heartfelt soul-level love.

S for Self-development and Self-discovery |. Part 2

Self-discovery – in these 2 videos for the “S” step you will learn how to become the person you need to be to attract great love. It’s about learning to be more of who you really are rather than trying to be something you’re not because you think that’s not acceptable or attractive. We do this by discovering your unhelpful patterns in love and rising above them. Most of the unhelpful patterns in love are unconscious, so this step will help you bring things into your mind that you can work on and release. From there you will open to embrace, heartfelt soul-level love.

I for Invincibility

Invincibility – In this step you will learn how to become invincible to any negativity that drains your energy away or pulls you from your true love path. This gives you some powerful pointers on how to truly stay in alignment with your Intention and keep walking steadily towards your goal of true, committed, romantic love.

E for Energy, Enthusiasm, Engagement and Enjoyment

 Energy, enthusiasm, engagement and enjoyment – this is the cornerstone, being more of yourself and living your life with joy and courage. By living your full self, you’ll learn how to be truly feminine, feed your heart and call in soul-level love. This last video guides you how to do just this.

R for Relationships

Relationships – Here you will learn how to surround yourself with people who lift you up and support you. You may find that some of your old friendships and relationships are not supportive of your growth and even pull you down. You will find yourself naturally and kindly disinvesting in them and you will begin to attract new kinds of relationship with people of like minds and similar goals for richer more joyful life.

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Are you ready to take your love life into your own hands?

Say yes to Energy, to living your full self, to surrounding yourself with joy and those that lift and support you, and to love.

I for Invincibility

Invincibility – In this step you will learn how to become invincible to any negativity that drains your energy away or pulls you from your true love path. This gives you some powerful pointers on how to truly stay in alignment with your Intention and keep walking steadily towards your goal of true, committed, romantic love.

R for Relationships

Relationships – Here you will learn how to surround yourself with people who lift you up and support you. You may find that some of your old friendships and relationships are not supportive of your growth and even pull you down. You will find yourself naturally and kindly disinvesting in them and you will begin to attract new kinds of relationship with people of like minds and similar goals for richer more joyful life.

E for Energy, Enthusiasm, Engagement and Enjoyment

 Energy, enthusiasm, engagement and enjoyment – this is the cornerstone, being more of yourself and living your life with joy and courage. By living your full self, you’ll learn how to be truly feminine, feed your heart and call in soul-level love. This last video guides you how to do just this.

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Are you ready to take your love life into your own hands?

Say yes to Energy, to living your full self, to surrounding yourself with joy and those that lift and support you, and to love.

About Heather

I have been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years, first as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  I now specialise in love and relationship coaching.

I am a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, I am a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

I am enjoying the fresh eye and new, very powerful tools for change that Calling in “The One” has given me. It is integrating beautifully into my work life and my love life!

Love and Relationship Coach