Are you ready to manifest true, committed love and the partner of your dreams?

You’ve probably had some painful relationship experiences with people who were not right for you, maybe some hurtful rejections, possibly long periods of isolation because you have not found the right person and are avoiding the pain of choosing the wrong ones. You may even believe there are no good partner-material people out there. If you can relate to any of that, then you are in absolutely the right place. I am here to guide you through the process to re-write your love story with a happy ending.   

What is The Desire Framework?

 Each letter in the word DESIRE is a signpost on your journey to Love.

In each lettered section, there is a short collection of journaling prompts and suggestions to signpost you along the way and ensure you get the maximum effect of the process.

Get yourself a lovely pen and journal or create documents on your chosen device which represent love and happiness for you.

Look for lovely pictures, a gorgeous ink shade, beautiful paper. Online you might border your pages, choose a colour and font that you enjoy which inspire romance.

Let’s get writing your new love story with that beautiful happy ending! 

The Desire Framework

D is for Defining 

Define the object of your desire. iIt is really important to be clear on your requirements in love and relationship.  The first two steps will give you clarity and the standard and feelings against which you will be measuring any prospective partner. If we’re not definite and clear, we are much more likely to just take who comes to us, rather than wait for and consciously choose someone who is right for us. Don’t let anyone tell you that you are too picky.  Your heart is your most prized possession and no to be shared with just anyone who asks. 

 E is for Exact, Elucidation and Expansion 

Exact – be exact in the creation of your Intention and Visualisation Meditation to strengthen your focus and become magnetic to love.  Setting an intention is like plotting your destination on Google Maps. You’ll become really clear at what you’re aiming for and you’ll assess any decisions you make as moving you closer or diverting you from your path. Get clear and deepen into this vision to expand into the you who walks that wonderful loved and loving path. 

S is for Self-development and Self-discovery

Self-development – in the 2-part “S” step you will learn how to become the person you need to be to attract great love. It’s about learning to be more of who you really are, rather than trying to be something you’re not because you think that’s not acceptable or attractive enough. We learn this by uncovering your unhelpful patterns in love and rising above them. Most of the unhelpful patterns in love are unconscious, so this step will help you bring things into your mind that you can work on and release. From there you will open to embrace, heartfelt soul-level love. 

I is for Invincibility

Invincible – In this step you will learn how to become invincible to any negativity that drains your energy away or pulls you from your true love path. This gives you some powerful pointers on how to truly stay in alignment with your Intention and keep walking steadily towards your goal.

R is for Relationships

Relationships – Here you will learn how to surround yourself with people who lift you up and support you. You may find that some of your old friendships and relationships are not supportive of your growth, and you will begin to attract new kinds of relationship with people of like minds and similar focus. 

E is for Energy, Enthusiasm, Engagement and Enjoyment

Energy, enthusiasm, engagement and enjoyment – this is the cornerstone, being more of yourself and living your life with joy and courage. By living your full self, you’ll learn how to be truly feminine, feed your heart and call in soul-level love.

Heather Garbutt Relationship Coach

About Your Host

I have been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years, first as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  I now specialise in love and relationship coaching.

I am a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, I am a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

I am enjoying the fresh eye and new, very powerful tools for change that Calling in “The One” has given me. It is integrating beautifully into my work life and my love life!

What’s included?

  • Desire Framework Ebook 
  • Video Course – Deep Dive into The Desire Framework with these powerful videos, gathered together to help you achieve maximum effectiveness
  • Accompanying worksheets to help you absorb the videos