About Me...
Supporting individuals and couples to find clarity, confidence
and connection—so love can thrive.
About Me...
Supporting individuals and couples to find clarity, confidence
and connection—so love can thrive.
I’m Heather Garbutt – and I believe in love that heals, grows, and honours who you truly are.
Hello and welcome. I’m so glad you’ve found your way here.
“I am not an expert on love, Delysia, I am an expert on the lack of love – and that is a fate from which I wish most fervently to save you.”
— Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day
That quote has lived in my heart for years. It sums up the truth at the centre of my life’s work.
For over four decades now, I’ve walked beside people through the most tender, tangled, and transformative moments of their emotional lives – as a psychotherapist, a Calling in “The One” and Conscious Uncoupling Coach, and a woman who has learned the depths and heights of love through my own experience.
I have always held one clear intention: to help people come home to love – to the love within themselves, to the love they long to give and receive, and to the relationships that can truly honour their deepest essence. ( not sure about that last phrase.)
Whether you’re seeking love for the first time, healing from heartbreak or emotional neglect, or building a conscious relationship that lasts a lifetime – I bring depth, insight, and profound compassion to help you create real change.
I wanted you to know how truly, deeply grateful I am to you. You are a magnificently magical master of creating divine change. You intuitively know exactly what, how and when to ask the most exquisite questions to allow light to shine where it is needed. Your ability to listen & translate my words into purposeful meaning is beautiful.
I have made quantum leaps forward already & after each of our sessions I am amazed at how much more light you enable to shine in my life.
About Me
How I Work
As a registered and experienced psychotherapist, I understand how childhood wounds, attachment patterns, and inner beliefs shape the way we show up in love. But I also know – and have seen hundreds of times – how transformational it is when you do the deep inner work to change those patterns.
That’s why I integrate the power of psychotherapeutic healing with the clarity and future-focused tools of transformational coaching. Working with me you will experience emotional repair and practical momentum – an approach that’s both soulful and strategic.
Through this work, I’ve helped women and men reclaim their self-worth, recover from toxic or narcissistic relationships, open to true intimacy, and call in the kind of love they didn’t dare believe was possible.
About Me
How I Work
As a registered and experienced psychotherapist, I understand how childhood wounds, attachment patterns, and inner beliefs shape the way we show up in love. But I also know – and have seen hundreds of times – how transformational it is when you do the deep inner work to change those patterns.
That’s why I integrate the power of psychotherapeutic healing with the clarity and future-focused tools of transformational coaching. Working with me you will experience emotional repair and practical momentum – an approach that’s both soulful and strategic.
Through this work, I’ve helped women and men reclaim their self-worth, recover from toxic or narcissistic relationships, open to true intimacy, and call in the kind of love they didn’t dare believe was possible.
My Own Love Story
I live in the Wiltshire countryside, where the seasons still surprise and delight me. Nature is my sanctuary – I walk often, breathe deeply, and let the natural world remind me what it means to belong.
I’m endlessly fascinated by the human heart and the extraordinary strength we all carry within us. Nothing brings me more joy than witnessing the quiet moment when someone remembers who they are – and begins to live from that place again.
Like many of the people I work with, I didn’t grow up swimming in healthy, unconditional love. I had to become a student of love – of its absence, its healing, its reawakening.
So when I sit with you, I bring not only professional expertise, but lived empathy. I know what it takes to rise. To unlearn. To trust again.
And I know, deep in my bones, how much the world changes when you stop settling for less than love and starts living from your true worth.
That’s why I do this work. That’s why I’m here. And that’s why I’m so glad you’ve found your way to me.
I'm So Glad You Are Here.
Love is not something we stumble into. It’s something we prepare for, choose, and nurture with care.
Everyone deserves love that feels safe, seen, and full of joy – not performance, perfectionism, or pain.
Our most painful experiences can become the doorways to our deepest wisdom and healing – if we’re met with understanding, respect, and the right support.
It’s never too late. Not for love. Not for change. Not for you.
- 40+ years of experience as a Psychotherapist, group facilitator, trainer and retreat leader
- Certified Calling in “The One” Coach and Conscious Uncoupling Coach, personally trained by Katherine Woodward Thomas
- Specialist in healing from emotionally abusive and narcissistic relationships
- I use Katherine’s True You Awakening process, which is the core of this work, to guide you to release limiting beliefs formed through trauma, neglect or past hurts.
- I am a speaker, teacher and guide for women and men who want to love with full presence, purpose, and passion.
Contact Number
+44 (0)7808 776150