In this episode of Revolutionise Your Love Life, relationship psychotherapist and love coach Heather Garbutt explores the complex inner world of empaths in relationships. Drawing from both professional insight and personal experience, she examines how deeply caring and emotionally attuned individuals can unintentionally lose themselves in love.

The episode focuses on the shadow side of empathy—when giving becomes over-functioning, boundaries become blurred, and relationships drift into imbalance. Heather speaks candidly about how these patterns can leave empaths burnt out, unfulfilled, and even vulnerable to narcissistic partners.

💬 Key takeways:

Recognising the Shadow Side of Empathy
Heather outlines the warning signs of empathy becoming self-sacrifice—how the instinct to care for others can turn into emotional depletion and burnout.

Understanding the Empath–Narcissist Dynamic
Listeners are guided through how empaths can unconsciously attract narcissistic or highly self-focused partners, and what can be done to break this pattern.

Reclaiming Self-Love and Boundaries
Heather offers practical tools for cultivating self-worth, honouring one’s needs, and stepping into emotionally balanced and fulfilling partnerships

 

This is an episode for anyone who has ever cared too much, given too much, or felt unseen in their relationships.

About The Host: Heather has been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years. First as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  She now specialises in love and relationship coaching.

Heather is a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, she is a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

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