In this heartfelt and courageous episode of Revolutionise Your Love Life, Heather Garbutt is joined by Janice Formichella—breakup coach, podcast host, and outspoken advocate for healing after relational trauma.

Together, they explore the often-taboo topic of family estrangement. Janice shares her deeply personal story of navigating life after separating from her birth family, revealing the emotional complexity and, ultimately, the liberation that came from her decision.

Janice opens up about her upbringing in a strict religious household, the betrayal she faced after choosing a different path, and the years of hurt that followed her efforts to reconnect. Her story is both devastating and empowering, offering insight into the psychological toll of toxic family dynamics—and the strength it takes to walk away.

For anyone feeling isolated in their experience or burdened by the shame of choosing distance from family, this conversation is a light in the dark.

Key Takeaways:
Normalising Estrangement: Janice highlights why family estrangement, though painful, is sometimes essential for safety, growth and emotional health.

The Scapegoat Role in Dysfunctional Families: An eye-opening conversation about how family systems unconsciously assign roles, and the psychological toll of being cast as the ‘problem’.

A Roadmap to Healing: Janice offers compassionate guidance on how to begin healing from estrangement—including building new community, finding professional support, and trusting one’s decision.

About The Host: Heather has been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years. First as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.  She now specialises in love and relationship coaching.
Heather is a qualified Calling in “The One” and “Conscious Uncoupling” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, she is a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

About Janice:
Janice Formichella is a breakup coach and the host of the podcasts Sex and the Solo Girl and
Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On. She is passionate about helping people from all
backgrounds to beat their breakup, overcome loneliness, and make the end of a relationship the start of a powerful new beginning. She is also a survivor of domestic violence and now uses her story to support others and raise awareness about the harmful impact of victim blaming.

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