Aug 31, 2026 | Relationships
I want to start this week by showing you this message I received from a soon to be married research scientist I worked with a few months back. She gave me permission to share it, though I will keep her name confidential. She wrote, “I didn’t believe it was...
Aug 24, 2026 | Relationships
I want to start with something that I think is really important to say clearly. Knowing something is not the same as having worked through it. Many of the women I work with are highly self-aware. They have read the books. They have been in therapy. They know they have...
Jul 28, 2026 | Relationships
I want to talk to you today about one of the most misunderstood things in online dating. And that is the dating profile itself. Most people, when they sit down to write a dating profile, are trying to do the same thing and that it to appeal to as many people as...
Jun 15, 2026 | Relationships
Have you ever met someone and immediately felt a pull, a sense of recognition, a feeling of that this time it will be different… …but some time later, you have looked back and realised it was not different at all? It was exactly the same pattern you have...
May 12, 2026 | Relationships
What is it, what it gets right and what you might choose to avoid A few weeks ago I made a video about the Manosphere, about what it is, where it comes from and why I think it matters for women trying to understand the men they are meeting in dating. Today I want to...
Feb 11, 2026 | Relationships
10 ways to let your wife know she is loved and to help her feel loved Most men love their wives deeply and yet many women still say, quietly or aloud, I don’t feel loved. This gap is rarely about lack of care, it is about how love is expressed, received...
